fighting a boss in a video game repeatedly without changing anything about your character/team/stats is a weird place between ‘the definition of insanity is doing something repeatedly and expecting different results’ and ‘it only has to work once’
Learn to articulate how you’re feeling without accusing anyone of having bad intentions. You can say “I’m afraid of being alone” without saying “you’re just going to leave me like everyone else.” You can say “I need some reassurance” without saying “you probably don’t love me anymore.” You can say “I’m afraid I’ve hurt your feelings and I’d like to talk it through” without saying “you don’t even like me anymore.” You can say “I want to spend more time with you” without saying “you’ve gotten tired of me.” You can say “I feel misunderstood” without saying “you always judge me.” Try not to let your emotions get the best of you. Have a conversation focused on finding solutions instead of escalating the conflict.
New Video! This was a Whole Process ™, so I did something a bit different and recorded a longer video in widescreen format.
This is the VERY abridged version, but if you want to see more, please head to Youtube for the full video!
(I’m not gonna do this for every video, but as I’ve said before, grappling arrows are too cool to be allowed not to work, so I needed to put the time in!)
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